Monday, March 30, 2009
How I've Been Enriched by Beggars
In every human there is a king. Speak with the king and the king will come on. Outside our hotel in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, a seemingly old woman on crutches was waiting by the door with his hand outstretched. Every day I my hand in it, as our eyes met. Never again is not my smile, my grasp, and my sin chau greeting. On the last day of our visit, I found myself alone on a busy street in the corner from our hotel. Bicycles and motorcycles careened in front of me. We had been advised to go straight through the traffic without a full left or right. Let us be avoided. But replica watchtoday, I was by myself and felt inadequate to the fullness of the vehicles. When I hesitated on the curb, I felt a hand on my knee and looked down to see the smile from my little friend beggars looking at me. She nodded her head in the direction of the road, indicating that they are me. Together we are slowly in the chaos, as she gently prodded me forward. If we take the middle of the intersection, I looked at her again, and could not resist, exclaiming: "You have a beautiful smile." They apparently knew little English, but it must have recognized the tone, because swiss replica watchesshe threw both arms around me and crutches in a big hug, while the streaming traffic of us on both sides. Then we have precariously on the pavement in the direction where they pulled my face to her, kissed me on both cheeks, and then limped away, still smiling and waving back to me. I had not a single medal. We had shared something far more important - a warming of the hearts in friendship.This experience was to me something Mother Teresa once said: "If you do not do big things, you can use small things with great love." To beggar in the eye and smile, so that the recognition of their existence, is a small thing. Put your hand into another, the outstretched hand and grasping it firmly for a moment is also a small matter. Learn how to use a greeting replica rolex watchesin the local language is not too difficult. But these are important. For many reasons, what money is not the best response to an outstretched hand. Many world travelers have discovered that the greatest gift that they can spend their time and their friendship. Everyone needs recognition, as deserves attention, feel loved and appreciated. Travel in poorer countries, I have experienced a variety of ways to deal with beggars. The most common reaction of the tourists in front of the poverty-stricken is to ignore, and focus their eyes elsewhere. I have seen people push an outstretched hand in furious anger. A few drops May hastily a few coins into a beseeching palm, and then do a quick weekend in the hope that another 20 ragged pursuers will not immediately on the scene. But I think it worthwhile to try to live by the words of the English author John Cowper Powys: "Nobody can quite civilized, which is not based on each individual, without a single exception, as the deep and startling interest."
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