Monday, March 30, 2009

The Fox and the Horse

A farmer had a faithful horse, which was old and could no longer work, so that his master is no longer wanted him something to eat and said: "I certainly can not use more of you, but I believe also from you, and even if you are still strong enough to send me a lion here, I will receive you. But for now from my stall. "And with that he chased him into the open field. The horse was sad puma shoes and went into the forest, where a little protection from the weather. There he met the fox and said, "Why hang your head so, and go about all alone?" "Oh," replied the horse, "greed and loyalty do not live together in a house. My Lord has forgotten what services I voted for him for so many years, and since I can no longer plow well, he will not eat me , and it has me. " "Without a chance?" asked the fox. "The opportunity was poor. He said if I was still strong enough to give it a lion, he would me, butnike shoes he knows very well that I did not do." The fox said: "I will help you. Just lie down, stretch it as if you were dead, and do not stir." The horse did what the fox asked, and then the fox went to the lions, its not far away, and said: "A horse is dead, is there. Come with me, and you can be a rich meal." The lion went with him, and if they both are, the horse the fox said: "It is not very comfortable for you here - I'll tell you what, I fasten it to you by the tail, and then draw them in your cave and eat it in peace. " This advice pleased the lion. He positioned himself, and so the fox could tie the horse fast to him, he kept completely quiet. But the fox tiedwomens clothesthe biggest legs together with the horse's tail and twisted and fastened everything so well and so strong that no amount of strength could pull it loose. When he had finished his work, he patted My mother helped the teacher to rent a bus and planning of the trip. They also served as tour guide, pointing out sights and fresh local history. When it's time to think about the school, there was never a question that we all go. (Three of us would be doctors, two lawyers were already and was a physicist.) "It is remarkable," said the dean. All cheered loudly. Mama's face was beaming with pride. I knew that everything that we have reached or would reach, because my parents. When we were young children, my mother, especially, was our mentor. First, I was an adult, I realize how special it was.the horse on the shoulder and said, "Pull, white horse, pull!" Then sprang the horse at once, and drew the lion away with him. The lion began to roar, so that all animals in the forest flew up in terror, but the horse let him roar, and drew him and dragged him across the field to meet his master's door. When the master saw the lion, he was of a better spirit and said to the horse, "You stay with me and the good go." And he gave him much to eat, until he died.

How I've Been Enriched by Beggars

In every human there is a king. Speak with the king and the king will come on. Outside our hotel in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, a seemingly old woman on crutches was waiting by the door with his hand outstretched. Every day I my hand in it, as our eyes met. Never again is not my smile, my grasp, and my sin chau greeting. On the last day of our visit, I found myself alone on a busy street in the corner from our hotel. Bicycles and motorcycles careened in front of me. We had been advised to go straight through the traffic without a full left or right. Let us be avoided. But replica watchtoday, I was by myself and felt inadequate to the fullness of the vehicles. When I hesitated on the curb, I felt a hand on my knee and looked down to see the smile from my little friend beggars looking at me. She nodded her head in the direction of the road, indicating that they are me. Together we are slowly in the chaos, as she gently prodded me forward. If we take the middle of the intersection, I looked at her again, and could not resist, exclaiming: "You have a beautiful smile." They apparently knew little English, but it must have recognized the tone, because swiss replica watchesshe threw both arms around me and crutches in a big hug, while the streaming traffic of us on both sides. Then we have precariously on the pavement in the direction where they pulled my face to her, kissed me on both cheeks, and then limped away, still smiling and waving back to me. I had not a single medal. We had shared something far more important - a warming of the hearts in friendship.This experience was to me something Mother Teresa once said: "If you do not do big things, you can use small things with great love." To beggar in the eye and smile, so that the recognition of their existence, is a small thing. Put your hand into another, the outstretched hand and grasping it firmly for a moment is also a small matter. Learn how to use a greeting replica rolex watchesin the local language is not too difficult. But these are important. For many reasons, what money is not the best response to an outstretched hand. Many world travelers have discovered that the greatest gift that they can spend their time and their friendship. Everyone needs recognition, as deserves attention, feel loved and appreciated. Travel in poorer countries, I have experienced a variety of ways to deal with beggars. The most common reaction of the tourists in front of the poverty-stricken is to ignore, and focus their eyes elsewhere. I have seen people push an outstretched hand in furious anger. A few drops May hastily a few coins into a beseeching palm, and then do a quick weekend in the hope that another 20 ragged pursuers will not immediately on the scene. But I think it worthwhile to try to live by the words of the English author John Cowper Powys: "Nobody can quite civilized, which is not based on each individual, without a single exception, as the deep and startling interest."

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Yellow Post-its

Can you still, my dear, in your possession? Among the souvenirs of your travels to distant countries, of which the textbooks are happy days when you went to the sacred portals of the engineering college, the cassettes, whose covers were left behind after one of these bacchanalian sessions in the hostel, the photos of classmates, whose names you can not remember? Or is it hidden in the darkness, the sight of the book along with the purchase, but never read, the gift you never found a use, and the letters that you never finished or sent. I can still here in the city, in the house that you have never visited, in the kitchen, where my imaginary conversations with you. It is here also, if I am not, because I go now, so that the light on and music playing, so I can return home to the illusion of the company.hair straighteners I'm probably better now. Without secrets to my parents. Without someone who is between me and my friends, me and my hobbies, me and my work, me and my sensible, understandable, utilitarian life. The life that I always tried not to hold, in line with the expectations that I continue to try not to hold to my own. It's not that I always feel like this, sometimes I long for the days on which both tears and laughter came easily. This simple and quick transitions from ecstasy to despair. When a compliment could clock my mind occupied at the end and a harsh word could be like a pin-prick the same skin that appears dry and insensitive. Like probably millions around the world, I see outside the window of a crowded bus, lost in my own thoughts and wonder how it could happen to me. I was not to be different from the rest? Not for the silly schoolgirl infatuation with the football captain or the fascination with the good for nothing,GHD pot-smoking would-be poets. Our friendship was a mature, committed to more. How can I feel PANG envy when you lent a helping hand to another girl, when you talked about someone who is far away and the married, if you were so into the book that you will not notice that we are never the whole day? When we decided that it is too long and that we meet, I carefully started to adopt a package for you. A small poem book that you've always wanted but never found an old photograph and a bar of chocolate for us to share. What would I wear and what we talk about? The package is still in my drawer waiting for the phone to ring again. It was a rainy Sunday afternoon, when we sat in my small room of the hostel, to discuss capitalism and campus gossip with the same passion. When it seemed as if these talks could last forever, chi hair straightenersand we would always back them. When Joni Mitchell sang "California" seven times to the idea of continuous play before we get out of. Then suddenly one day we were looking for each other. They were always somewhere else, doing something else and strangely enough so was I. The new people I met on the trip and the junior man who loved the same movies I do. The girl next door, the math lessons from you. My room was almost always locked and it was no different. We have discovered, seemed a world away from us suddenly. The tragedy was, we had also the world that we had lost. Then came the rescue operation. The loud fights in the hostel wing, the long silence and desperate angry notes. Frustration, anxiety and love reveals itself in the ugliest ways. Then apathy, complacency and resignation. Peaceful, factual discussion of how we could remain friends. The decision that we always let the other know when we would be in order. That's when I made this yellow post-its on the door. The yellow post-its, by the time I came back would have your coordinates, which I never used. If we all of them now, they would tell this story much better than I do now. Back at home, I continue from this post-its on this day, in the hope that someone writes their whereabouts to them as well.

The Fox and the Horse

A farmer had a faithful horse, which was old and could no longer work, so that his master is no longer wanted him something to eat and said: "I certainly can not use more of you, but I believe also from you, and even if you are still strong enough to send me a lion here, I will receive you. But for now from my stall. "And with that he chased him into the open field. The horse was sad and went into the forest, where a little protection from the weather. There he met the fox and said, "Why hang your head so, Gucci Handbagsand go about all alone?" "Oh," replied the horse, "greed and loyalty do not live together in a house. My Lord has forgotten what services I voted for him for so many years, and since I can no longer plow well, he will not eat me , and it has me. " "Without a chance?" asked the fox. "The opportunity was poor. He said if I was still strong enough to give it a lion, he would me, but he knows very well that I did not do." The fox said: "I will help you. Just lie down, stretch it as if you were dead, and do not stir." The horse did what the fox asked, and then the fox went to the lions, its not far away, and said: "A horse is dead, is there. Come with me, and you can be a rich meal." The lion went with him, Rolex Watchesand if they both are, the horse the fox said: "It is not very comfortable for you here - I'll tell you what, I fasten it to you by the tail, and then draw them in your cave and eat it in peace. " This advice pleased the lion. He positioned himself, and so the fox could tie the horse fast to him, he kept completely quiet. But the fox tied the biggest legs together with the horse's tail and twisted and fastened everything so well and so strong that no amount of strength could pull it loose. When he had finished his work, he patted the horse on the shoulder and said, "Pull, white horse, pull!" Then sprang the horse at once, and drew the lion away with him. The lion began to roar, so that all animals in the forest flew up in terror, but the horse let him roar, and drew him and dragged him across the field to meet his master's door. When the master saw the lion, he was of a better spirit and said to the horse, "You stay with me and the good go." And he gave him much to eat, until he died.

Sunday, March 22, 2009

A Sky Angel

In 1978, I became a flight attendant for a major airline. Earning my wings was the culmination of a childhood dream that I had set for myself after my first plane ride at the age of five. Like so many others before me, I fell in love with the romance of airplanes, adventure and helping others. I have flown hundreds of flights since graduation, but one stands out among the many.We were flying from Los Angeles to Washington, D.C, when I answered a lavatory call light in the coach cabin. There I found a young mother struggling with her infant. Everything was a mess, to say the least, and the mother, who was Replica Watchesnear hysterics, told me she had no more diapers or other clothing onboard the aircraft.Through her tears, she informed me that they had missed their flight the previous night in Los Angeles and because she had very little money, she and her son had spent the night on the airport floor. Since she hadn't expected to miss the flight, she was forced to use up most of her supplies and whatever money she had to feed them.With the saddest eyes I have ever seen she continued. She told me she was on her way to New Hampshire to deliver herreplica designer handbags son to the family that was adopting him. She could no longer support the two of them. As she stood in front of me, crying, holding her beautiful son, I could see the despair and hopelessness on her face. And, as a mother of three beautiful daughters, I could feel her pain. I immediately rang the flight attendant call button and asked for assistance from the other flight attendants. They brought cloth towels from first class to assist in cleaning up both mom and the infant. I ran and got my suitcase; because this woman and I were about the same size, I gave her a sweater and a pair of pants I had brought for my layover. Then I asked several families if they could spare extra diapers, formula and clothes for the child. After the young mother and her son had changed theirCoach Handbags clothes and the baby had gone to sleep, I sat with her, holding her hand, trying to provide some support and comfort for the remainder of the flight. Once we landed, I walked them to their next flight, which would take them to their final destination; separation. I briefed the gate agent and the new flight attendant crew on the situation and asked them to give her special attention.With tears in my eyes I gave her a hug and told her, "You have shown me the true meaning of courage and a mother's love. I will never forget you."As she thanked me for all I had done she said softly, "You're not the flight attendant, you're a sky angel." Touching my flight attendant wings, she continued, "And those are your angel wings."With those words she turned and walked down the jetway, her child in her arms, and boarded the plane for New Hampshire.Though I am no longer a flight attendant, my "angel wings" are still on prominent display in my office. And each time I see them, I am reminded of that young woman, her infant son and the gift that she gave me on that special day - that we truly are all spiritual beings traveling in human form.

An engagement ring

I got an engagement ring for Christmas. My boyfriend and I had been dating for almost a year and both felt the time was right to join our lives together in holy matrimony.The month of January was spent planning our perfect Alabama June wedding. My mother, two sisters and I went to Huntsville, the closest town with a selection of bridal shops, to buy the gown that would play the leading role on my special occasion.We had a wonderful time just being together and sharing silly jokes, but the day soon turned serious by afternoon: still no sign of the dress of my dreams. Both sisters were ready to give up and try another day in another town, but I coerced them into one more boutique.I had a good feeling as we entered the quaint little shop filled with the scent of fresh flowers. The elderly clerk showed us severalReplica rolex watches beautiful gowns in my size and price range, but none were right. As I opened the door to leave, the desperate shop owner announced she had one more dress in the back that was expensive and not even my size, but perhaps I might want to look at it anyway. When she brought it out, I squealed in delight. This was it!I rushed to the dressing room and slipped it on. Even though it was at least two sizes too large and more costly than I had anticipated, I talked Mom into buying it. The shop was so small it didn't offer alterations, but my excitement assured me I would be able to get it resized in my hometown. Excitement wasn't enough. On Monday morning, my world crumbled when the local sewing shop informed me the dress simply could not be altered because of numerous hand-sewn pearls and sequins on the bodice. I called the boutique for suggestions but only got their answering machine. A friend gave me the number of a lady across town who worked at home doing alterations. I was desperate and replica handbagwilling to try anything, so I decided to give her a call. When I arrived at her modest white house on the outskirts of town, she carefully inspected my dress and asked me to try it on. She put a handful of pins into the shoulders and sides of my gown and told me to pick it up in two days. She was the answer to my prayers. When the time came to pick it up, however, I grew skeptical. How could I have been so foolish as to just leave a $1,200 wedding dress in the hands of someone I barely knew? What if she made a mess out of it? I had no idea if she could even sew on a button.Thank goodness my fears were all for naught. The dress still looked exactly the same, but it now fit as if it had been made especially for me. I thanked the cheerful lady and paid her modest fee.One small problem solved just in time for a bigger one to emerge.Replica Handbags On Valentine's Day, my fiance called."Sandy, I've come to the decision that I'm not ready to get married," he announced, none too gently. "I want to travel and experience life for a few years before settling down." He apologized for the inconvenience of leaving all the wedding cancellations to me and then quickly left town.My world turned upside down. I was angry and heartbroken and had no idea how to recover. But days flew into weeks and weeks blended into months. I survived.One day in the fall of the same year, while standing in line at the supermarket, I heard someone calling my name. I turned around to see the alterations lady. She politely inquired about my wedding, and was shocked to discover it had been called off, but agreed it was probably for the best. I thanked her again for adjusting my wedding gown, and assured her it was safely bagged and awaiting the day I would wear it down the aisle on the arm of my real "Mister Right". With a sparkle in her eye, she began telling me about her single son, Tim. Even though I wasn't interested in dating again, I let her talk me into meeting him.I did have my summer wedding after all, only a year later. And I did get to wear the dress of my dreams - standing beside Tim, the man I have shared the last eighteen years of my life with, whom I would never have met without that special wedding gown.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Silence Is Bliss

Will and Lyra followed the stream into the wood, walking carefully, saying little, until they were in the very center. There was a little clearing in the middle of the grove, which was floored with soft grass and moss covered rocks. The branches laced across overhead, almost shutting out the sky and letting through little moving spangles and sequins of sunlight, so that everything was dappled with gold Designer clothingand silver. And it was quiet. Only the trickle of the stream, and the occasional rustle of leaves high up in a little curl of breeze, broke the silence. Will put down the package of food; Lyra put down her little rucksack. There was no sign of the daemon- shadows anywhere. They were completely alone. They took off their shoes and socks and sat down on the mossy rocks at the edge of the stream, dipping their feet in the cold water and feeling the shock of it invigorate their blood.“I’m hungry,” Will said“Me too,” said Lyra, though she was feeling more than that, something subdued and pressing Designer replica handbagsand half happy and half painful, so that she wasn’t quite sure what it was. They unfolded the cloth and ate some bread and cheese. For some reason their hands were slow and clumsy, and they hardly tasted the food, although the bread was floury and crisp from the hot baking stones, and the cheese was flaky and salty and very fresh. Then Lyra took one of those little red fruits. With a fast beating heart, she turned to him and said, “Will...”And she lifted the fruit gently to his mouth. She could see from his eyes that he knew at once what she meant, and that he was too joyful to speak. HerWholesale jewelry fingers were still at his lips, and he felt them tremble, and he put his own hand up to hold hers there, and then neither of them could look; they were confused; they were brimming with happiness. Like two moths clumsily bumping together, with no more weight than that, their lips touched. Then before they knew how it happened, they were clinging together, blindly pressing their faces towards each other.“Like Mary said,” he whispered,“you know straight away when you like someone,when you were asleep on the mountain, before she took you away ,I told Pan。”“I heard,” she whispered, “I was awake and I wanted to tell you the same and now I know what I must have felt all the time: I love you, Will, I love you…”The word love set his nerves ablaze. All his body thrilled with it, and he answered her in the same words, kissing her hot face over and over again, drinking in with adoration the scent of her body and her warm honey fragrant hair and her sweet moist mouth that tasted of the little red fruit.Around them there was nothing but silence, as if the whole world were holding its breath.

Picasso And Me

This is the 50th Anniversary of the day on which I have paths with Pablo Picasso. It is a strange way. I had a column showing how absurd some of my e-mails have become. One letter was from Philadelphia. It was written by a Temple University student named Harvey Brodsky. Harvey said he was in love with a girl named Gloria Segall, and he hopes to marry someday. She claimed that the greatest living fan of Picasso. The couple went to a Picasso exhibition, and to impress her, Harvey Gloria said he could probablyed hardy clothing autograph of the artist. Harvey's letter continued: "Since this incident, Gloria and I no longer see. I did a stupid thing, and they threw me out and told me she never wanted to see me again. "I am writing to you because I'm not the Gloria. Could you Picasso's autograph for me? If you could, I have a feeling Gloria and I were together again. The future of two young people depend on. I knows she is unhappy with me and I without them. Everything depends on you. " At the end of the letter, he said, "I, Harvey Brodsky, can solemnly swear that all the articles that interest me from Art Buchwald (namely, replica handbagsPablo Picasso's autograph) will never be sold or transferred to third parties with the exception of Mrs. Gloria Segall." I printed the letter in my column to show how ridiculous my mail was. When it appeared, David Duncan, a photographer, was with Picasso in Cannes and Duncan translated it for Picasso. Picasso was very moved, and he has his crayons and has a beautiful color sketch for Gloria Segall and signed. Duncan called and told me the good news. I said: "The devil with Gloria Segall, what about me?" David explained this to Picasso and he was a crayon picture of the two of us together with a glass of wine, and wrote at the top, "Pour Art Buchwald." At this time, the Associated Press had picked up the story, followed replica watchesby the delivery of on the picture to Gloria Segall. If there are special delivery in Philadelphia, Gloria has a look and said: "Harvey and I will always good friends." If you're wondering how the story ends, Harvey married somebody else, and so has Gloria. The Picasso hangs in Gloria's living room. It was a story that is the imagination of people around the world. I have many letters after the column was published. My favorite came from an art dealer in New York who wrote: "I can give you so many unhappy couples in New York City, you can Picasso sketches. Two girls I know are on the verge of suicide when they are not by Picasso, and I know several couples in Greenwich Village, in the early stages a divorce. Please transfer me how many you need. We both stand to see a property. " Another letter from Bud Grossman in London, said: "My wife threatens to leave me unless I can assure her Khrushchev's autograph. You would like it on the Russian sable coat."

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Beautiful, She Said

I never thought that I understood her. She always seemed so far away from me. I loved her, of course. We shared mutual love from the day I was born. I came into this world with a bashed head and deformed features because of the hard labor my mother had gone through. Family members and friends wrinkled their noses at the disfigured baby I was. They all commented on how much I looked like a beat-up football player. But no, not her. Nana thought I was beautiful. Her eyes twinkled with splendor and happiness at the ugly baby in her arms. Her first granddaughter. Beautiful, she said. Before final exams in my junior year of high school, she died. Seven years ago, her doctors diagnosed Nana with Alzheimer’s disease. Seven years ago, our family became experts on this disease as, slowly, we lost her.puma shoes She always spoke in fragmented sentences. As the years passed, the words she spoke became fewer and fewer, until finally she said nothing at all. We were lucky to get one occasional word out of her. It was then our family knew she was near the end. About a week or so before she died, she lost the abilities for her body to function at all, and the doctors decided to move her to a hospice. A hospice. Where those who entered would never come out. I told my parents I wanted to see her. I had to see her. My uncontrollable curiosity had taken a step above my gut-wrenching fear. My mother brought me to the hospice two days after my request. My grandfather and two of my aunts were there as well, but all hung back in the hallway as I entered Nana’s room. She was sitting in a big, fluffy chair next to her bed, slouched over, nike shoeseyes shut, mouth numbly hanging open. The morphine was keeping her asleep. My eyes darted around the room at the windows, the flowers, and the way Nana looked. I was struggling very hard to take it all in, knowing that this would be the last time I ever saw her alive. I slowly sat down across from her. I took her left hand and held it in mine, brushing a stray lock of golden hair away from her face. I just sat and stared, motionless, in front of her, unable to feel anything. I opened my mouth to speak but nothing came out. I could not get over how awful she looked sitting there, helpless. Then it happened. Her little hand wrapped around mine tighter and tighter. Her voice began what sounded like a soft howl. She seemed to be crying in pain. And then, she spoke. “Jessica,” Plain as day. My name. Mine. Out of 4 children,womens clothes 2 son-in-laws, 1 daughter-in-law, and 6 grandchildren, she knew it was me. At that moment, it was like someone was showing a family filmstrip in my head. I saw Nana at my baptizing. I saw her at my fourteen dance recitals. I saw her bringing me roses and beaming with pride. I saw her tap dancing on our kitchen floor. I saw her pointing at her own wrinkled cheeks and telling me that it was from her that I inherited my big dimples. I saw her playing games with us grandkids while the other adults ate Thanksgiving dinner. I saw her sitting with me in my living room at Christmas time admiring our brightly decorated tree. I then looked at her as she was...and I cried. I knew she would never see my final senior dance recital. I knew she would never see me cheer for another football game. I knew she would never sit with me and admire our Christmas tree again. I knew she would never see me go off to my senior prom. I knew she would never see me graduate high school or college or see me get married. And I knew she would never be there the day my first child was born. This made tear after tear roll down my face. But above all, I cried because I finally knew how she had felt the day I had been born. She had looked through what she saw on the outside and looked to the inside and saw ... a life. I slowly released her hand from mine and brushed away the tears staining her cheeks, and mine. I stood, leaned over, and kissed her.You look beautiful.”And with one long last look, I turned and left the hospice.

Bright Heart

Last year around Halloween, I was invited to participate in a carnival for Tuesday’s Child, an organization that helps children with the AIDS virus. I was asked to attend because I’m on a television show; I went because I care. I don't think that most of the kids recognize me as a celebrity. They just thought of me as a big kid who came to play with them for the day. I think I liked it better that way. At the carnival they had all kinds of booths. I was drawn to one in particular because of all the children that had gathered there. At this booth, anyone who wanted to could paint a square. replica watchLater that square was going to be sewn together with the others, to make a quilt. The quilt would be presented to a man who had dedicated his life to this organization and would soon be retiring. They gave everyone fabric paints in bright, beautiful colors and asked the kids to paint something that would make the quilt beautiful. As I looked around at all the squares, I saw pink hearts and bright blue clouds, beautiful orange sunrises and green and purple flowers. The pictures were all bright, positive and uplifting. All except for one. The boy sitting next to me was painting a heart, but it was dark, empty, lifeless. It lacked swiss replica watchesthe bright, vibrant colors that his fellow artists had used. At first I thought maybe he took the only paint that was left and it just happened to be dark. But when I asked him about it, he said his heart was that color because his own heart felt dark. I asked him why and he told me that he was very sick. Not only was he very sick, but his mom was very sick also. He said that his sickness was not ever going to get better and neither was his mom's. He looked straight into my eyes and said, “There is nothing anyone can do that will help.” I told him I was sorry that he was sick and I could certainly understand why he was so sad. I could even understand why he had made his heart a dark color. But.replica rolex watchesI told him that it isn't true that there is nothing anyone can do to help. Other people may not be able to make him or his mom better...but we can do things like give bear hugs, which in my experience can really help when you are feeling sad. I told him that if he would like, I would be happy to give him one so he could see what I meant. He instantly crawled into my lap and I thought my own heart would burst with the love I felt for this sweet little boy. He sat there for a long time and when he had had enough, he jumped down to finish his coloring. I asked him if he felt any better and he said that he did, but he was still sick and nothing would change that. I told him I understood. I walked away feeling sad, but recommitted to this cause. I would do whatever I could to help. As the day was coming to an end and I was getting ready to head home, I felt a tug on my jacket. I turned around and standing there with a smile on his face was the little boy. He said, “My heart is changing colors. It is getting brighter...I think those bear hugs really do work.” On my way home I felt my own heart and realized it, too, had changed to a brighter color.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Your Brain On Drug

A few years ago there was a TV spot with a frying pan and an egg. First, the egg and said: "This is your brain." Then cracked the egg into the hot pan, and said: "This is your brain on drugs. If you have any questions?" If it is found, it was a pretty fair analogy. Here is what your brain and memory on these drugs:Ecstasy - This is an amphetamine. With the increased use of medications can cause these problems when the difference between reality and fantasy, and problems concentrating. It is difficult toreplica handbag write a test, if you can not access them. Studies have found that this drug destroys fibers in the brain tissue. These fibers can grow, but they do not grow back to normal. Like most drugs, it affects her memory and can cause paranoia, anxiety and confusion. Heroin - Heroin is a highly addictive opiate. Brain cells can very quickly on this drug to the extent that they need it to work. While heroin begins with a rush of joy, they can use in a fog for many hours later. The greatest danger is the heroin addiction.Wholesale jewelry Users quickly find that their only purpose in life is to make more of the drug that their body has become dependent, and everything else is secondary, that necessary. Marijuana (Pot) - The parts of the brain, the emotions, memory, and decision are affected by pot. Smoking pot is not only weaken your short-term memory (making it harder to remember what you learned in biology class today), but it can prevent that information from them in your long-term memory. So, if your exam at the end of the body jewelryyear, you will not remember what you learned. It may also weaken your ability to solve problems. Alcohol - not fool yourself into thinking that alcohol is safer than drugs (it is not). Alcohol consumption affects your opinion and leads to memory lapses. It can even cause power outages. It distorts vision, teaching your co-ordination, and can damage every organ in the body, including your brain. Cocaine - Cocaine, in powder form and as crack, is very addictive. Once a person is dependent ona drug, they lose interestReplica rolex watches in many other areas of their lives, including school, sports and friends. Use of these drugs can cause feelings of fear and paranoia. The physical effect on the receptors in the brain, reducing their ability to feel pleasure (which in turn causes the dependency on the drug). Inhalants - These are substances that are sniffed, including glues, gasoline, hair spray, paint thinner, and much more. They are very dangerous because their effect on the brain almost immediately. And while some vapors from the body quickly, others remain there for a long time. The adipose tissue protection of the nerve cells in our brain are destroyed by inhalant vapors. This slows or even stops transfers replica watchesof these neurons. Depending on which part of the brain are involved in these cells, you can lose the ability to learn new things or to solve multi-part problems. LSD (Acid) - This is an unpredictable drug. It causes paranoia, confusion, anxiety and panic attacks. Like Ecstasy, the user often blurs reality and fantasy, and has a distorted view of time and distance. Steroids - Anabolic steroids are measures aimed at improving athletic performance and muscle, but unfortunately many users not to discuss the health risks. Not only that they capriciousness, they have permanently impair learning and memory abilities in animals. You can do to also in the people. Tobacco you should not think wholesale shoessmoking as the same as drugs do. In fact, you inhale a dangerous drug, nicotine in your body. Nicotine affects the brain quickly, like other inhalants, producing feelings of pleasure, like cocaine and is highly addictive as heroin. Ritalin - Yes, this is the same drug prescribed for ADD patients, but it is quick to illegal street drugs as well. It is easily accessible, and inexpensive, but many people do not realize that it is illegal, on the drug without a prescription. The biggest problem with its use lies in the fact that it was developed around the mouth, such as the pill. Drug users looking for a high instead crush the pill into a powder and snort it like cocaine or heroin inject as them. It then has a much greater effect on the body and the other ingredients in the pill have an effect. It causes severe headaches, anxiety, paranoia and delusions. Now you know the facts. There are no medications, and all of them will adversely affect you in any way, both now and in the long run. Your future is not more important than that?

Letting Go of Yesterday

On Saturday, 12 February two thousand and two things happened that changed everything in my life. The first was that on this day my little sister was married. She was twenty-six this day, and yet to me, they still my baby sister. I suppose that I picture her as a little girl, and treated it as a In order to keep and 1) in my own youth. Until I saw her in her wedding dress I was a Their vision of 2) chubby little cheeks and long, dark-brown 3) pigtails blowing in the wind, perhaps even a 4) constant 5) the smear of chocolate to her pink lips. I think it is true that you only what You want to see. Where is this replica handbagsbeautiful woman with the luminous 6) complexion and soft curves come from? I was happy that day and also sad. Gone are the days of me Bossing her around and tell their what they should do with their lives. My Bossy behavior had earned me the nickname of Lucy. If you are a Peanuts fan, then you can imagine, my conduct as clearly an older sister. For me it was not 7) insult, I prefer the nickname of Lucy. I believe that Lucy is strong and has incredible self -- Confidence, but it is a bit 8) to be bossy. I did my best to 9) live up to the Standards 10), the dynamic of this caricature character.I left the reception to get somereplica watches air, because Suddenly I was overcome with grief to the realization that I no longer a child. I went outside and went to a nearby playground, where children play on the slide, the swings and digging in the dirt. It was a little girl, 11) rotating on a bar, a knee wrapped tightly around the bar Hours and behind her knees. It was everything I could do to sit there and just watch, because I wanted to Get on that bar with her and see if I have the all-time record clockwise (ninety-nine times in the fifth grade). Somewhere inside wholesale clothingI knew that I would my neck and I was wearing a 12) Bridesmaid Dress. Not just playground equipment. And so I just sat the kids play. I'm not sure how long I sat before my sister came and joined me. We talked about how we have grown and now a few flakes Tears of our childhood days gone by. As she wiped a tear from my eye she said affectionately: "You are always Lucy will be to me. "We hugged. My cousin Mike wentMen's Clothes and told my sister that it was time to Cake. And then he went number two bomb on me. "Hey, did you guys hear that Charles Schultz died today? "He said it like it was no big deal. He has my sister's arm and turned again to the Lobby. "COMING?" They asked. "In a minute." I replied, and sat down again on the bench, 13) dizzy by what he just said me.Dead? How could Charles Schultz dead? He was my creator! And although I have never been the man personally, he was always like an invisible father to me. He has After all, fashion a famous Designer clothingcharacter after me. I have so many things on this day. Innocence slipped away from me like a thief in the night came and went before I could do something about it, with You all the treasures that I am precious in my heart. I felt myself grow up, everything in a moment. Reality rushed in, around me like a hurricane tide. There was nowhere to run to. All I could do was SIT there and they look to destroy and reshape what had existed only a moment before. I was no longer a child. I was not Lucy Designer replica handbagswho knew what is best for everyone else. I saw for the first time, what I really was thirty years old woman with a man of my own, and soon a child from my own.I allows the flood To express my grief with her. Take it to the sea, because it makes no sense in my life. I stood up y the bank, a little bigger than I was when I sat. I turned and led back into the hall, Hope I do not have the cutting of the cake. It was the day my sister was by their own wings and left the nest. It was the day that Lucy died, and I was born.

Monday, March 9, 2009

Discussing our victory

The summer before fifth grade, my world was turned upside down when my family moved from the country town where I was born and raised to a town near the beach. When school began, I found it difficult to be accepted by the kids in my class who seemed a little more sophisticated, and who had been in the same class together since first grade.I also found this Catholic school different from the public school I had attended. At my old school, it was acceptable to express yourself to the teacher. Here, it was considered outrageous to even suggest a change be made in the way things were done. My replica handbagmom taught me that if I wanted something in life, I had to speak up or figure out a way to make it happen. No one was going to do it for me. It was up to me to control my destiny.I quickly learned that my classmates were totally intimidated by the strict Irish nuns who ran the school. My schoolmates were so afraid of the nuns’ wrath that they rarely spoke up for themselves or suggested a change.Not only were the nuns intimidating, they also had some strange habits. The previous year, my classmates had been taught by a nun named Sister Rose. This year, she came to our class to teach music several times a week. During their year with her, she had earned the nickname Pick-Her-Nose-Rose. My classmates swore thatWholesale jewelry during silent reading, she’d prop her book up so that she could have herself a booger-picking session without her students noticing. The worst of it, they told me, was that after reading was over, she’d stroll through the classroom and select a victim whose hair would be the recipient of one of her prize boogers. She’d pretend to be praising one of her students by rubbing her long, bony fingers through their hair! Well, to say the least, I did not look forward to her sort of praise.One day during music, I announced to Sister Rose that the key of the song we were learning was too high for our voices. Every kid in the class turned toward me with wide eyes and looks of total disbelief. I had spoken my opinion to a teacher― - one of the Irish nuns!That was the day I gained acceptance with the class.body jewelry Whenever they wanted something changed, they’d beg me to stick up for them. I was willing to take the punishment for the possibility of making a situation better and of course to avoid any special attention from Pick-Her-Nose-Rose. But I also knew that I was being used by my classmates who just couldn’t find their voices and stick up for themselves.Things pretty much continued like this through sixth and seventh grades. Although we changed teachers, we stayed in the same class together and I remained the voice of the class.At last, eighth grade rolled around and one early fall morning our new teacher,Replica rolex watches Mrs. Haggard― - not a nun, but strict nevertheless― - announced that we would be holding elections for class representatives. I was elected Vice President.That same day, while responding to a fire drill, the new president and I were excitedly discussing our victory when, suddenly, Mrs. Haggard appeared before us with her hands on her hips. The words that came out of her mouth left me surprised and confused. “You’re impeached!” she shouted at the two of us. My first reaction was to burst out laughing because I had no idea what the word “impeached” meant. When she explained that we were out of office for talking during a fire drill, I was devastatedOur class held elections again at the beginning replica watchesof the second semester. This time, I was elected president, which I took as a personal victory. I was more determined than ever to represent the rights of my oppressed classmates.My big opportunity came in late spring. One day, the kids from the other eighth grade class were arriving at school in “free dress,” wearing their coolest new outfits, while our class arrived in our usual uniforms: the girls in their pleated wool skirts and the boys in their salt and pepper pants. “How in the world did this happen?” we all wanted to know. One of the eighth graders from the other class explained that their teacher got permission from our principal, Sister Anna, as a special treat for her students.We were so upset that we made a pact to go in and let our teacher know that we felt totally ripped off.wholesale shoes We agreed that when she inevitably gave us what had become known to us as her famous line, “If you don’t like it, you can leave,” we’d finally do it. We’d walk out together. Once in the classroom, I raised my hand and stood up to speak to our teacher. About eight others rose to show their support. I explained how betrayed we felt as the seniors of the school to find the other eighth graders in free dress while we had to spend the day in our dorky uniforms. We wanted to know why she hadn’t spoken on our behalf and made sure that we weren’t left out of this privilege.As expected, instead of showing sympathy for our humiliation, she fed us her famous line, “If you don’t like it, you can leave.” One by one, each of my classmates shrank slowly back into their seats. Within seconds, I was the only one left standing.I began walking out of the classroom, and Mrs. Haggard commanded that I continue on to the principal’s office.

The differentiate

Why is speaking important?When we talk about speaking in class it is important to differentiate between the kind of speaking which occurs in mechanical drills and repetition, on the one hand, and situations where students use as much language as they can and where getting their message across is just as important as grammatical accuracy, on the other. In this article it is the latter kind of speaking that we are going to look at. There are three main reasons why it is important to encourage students to speak replica handbagsas fluently as possible. In the first place, speaking activities give them a chance for rehearsal - practising the real skill of speaking as a preparation for using it outside the classroom. Secondly, when students speak using all and any language they know, it provides valuable feedback about their language knowledge, for both them and their teachers. How well can they perform in spontaneous conversational situations? What do they seem to know? What are they finding difficult to achieve? Lastly, good speaking activities provoke genuine student engagement where they really get involved with the replica watchesprocess of language learning in class. What is good speaking material?Good speaking activities should have a number of characteristics: they should engage the students by making them want to take part. They should have some purpose which is not purely linguistic - such as solving a problem or reaching a decision. They should be designed to maximise the range of language they will use, so they should not restrict students, for example, to specific grammar patterns. What kinds of speaking activity can we use?A popular kind of speaking activity involves an information gap. Students have different information and they have to solve a problem by swapping facts to bridge the information gap between them. Typical examples include situations where four students have each seen separate pictures: by wholesale clothingtelling each other what they have seen, they are able to work out the story that the pictures tell. In another type, one student has a picture that another student has to draw only by listening to a description of it. Another kind of activity which provokes the kind of speaking we are considering, involves the students in conducting surveys. These can be on any subject: they can question each other about their daily lives (habits, family,) or preferences (food, films, books). Questionnaires and surveys can fit into a longer teaching sequence so that planning the questionnaire and collating the results Men's Clothesafterwards can bevaluable language-learning activities in themselves. Discussions provide ideal opportunities for speaking. Subjects with scope for controversy are best for discussion: roles of men and women, censorship, animal rights, patriotism, for example. Many people have plenty to say on such topics. Some of the most enjoyable classes of all are ones when unplanned discussions suddenly arise on issues that matter to the students. But most teachers will also be able to remember discussions that simply did not work, despite a seemingly good topic. This may be because it is unrealistic to expect someone to discourse fluently in a foreign language without any warning, formulating deeply-held opinionsDesigner clothing quickly in front of fifteen, twenty-five or more fellow students. It is not enough, in other words, to ask students, 'What do you think of X?'. Instead, teachers should plan the discussion sequence giving students material to react to, and time to plan what they are going to say. A popular way of emphasising the rehearsal aspect of speaking activities is to use simulations and role plays. This is where students pretend that they are in a different situation, either as themselves or playing the role of someone quite different. We could ask them to be guests at some party and go there as different characters. We might clear the classroom so there is an open space for them to party in. They could,Designer replica handbags as themselves, pretend to be at an airport trying to check in luggage, or either as themselves or another character take part in a television programme. When should students speak?Many people have thought that speaking activities should come at the end of a teaching sequence; you have taught the present continuous for future, for example, and now you ask students to role-play situations in which they make arrangements and invite each other: (What are you doing this evening? How about coming to a movie? etc.). There is nothing wrong with this of course, but it should not be thought that there has to be that kind of linear relationship between a speaking activity and non-speaking material that went before it. Indeed, students probably need quite some time for new language to sink in before they can produce it spontaneously in conversation.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

A Funny Memory

Oh God! I think I was about seven and half when my sisters and I pulled this stupid stunt. I remember watching television with them and the show on happened to be our favorite program to watch. All of a sudden we heard my brother, Chris, yelling from the backyard. So we all headed out there to see what happened. When we finally located him, he was in a tree hanging from the highest tree branch. Crying, he explained to us that he had climbed up the tree and couldn't get down. We thought, okay, one of us shouldhair straighteners climb up and get him off, but we couldn't manage to get him moving down.It was then my youngest sister, Ka, who was five and a half at the time had seen a similar situation. She suggested we grab a sheet, hold it under the branch Chris was hanging off of, and tell him to drop so we can catch him. My other sister, Yams, who is one year younger than me, peered at me to confirm the idea and I said "Yeah, let's try that".So we grabbed a sheet from the closet and went to hold it beneath the tree. Now mind you, wholesale handbagsthe ages holding this blanket were ranging from seven and a half to five and a half, thus the sheet was probably being held up to our waist and also close to touching the ground. But we were confident it could work.We looked up to Chris and he looked down at us a bit hesitant. I don't blame him the poor guy. It was then we told him to let go and to fall on his back. Chris looked at me and asked "Are you sure I'll land on the blanket?" Now, my brother at the age of four, had a cute squeaky voice.replica watch But because of a problem at birth with his tongue being a bit attached to the mouth, it came out more like this, "Ah you sho awill lan on da blanked?", "Yup!", I told him, "We're sure!" and he let go.Now when I think about Chris letting go of that branch, I think of his faith in me and my sisters and I also think how stupid he was to trust us, cause when that boy let go he was in for a big surprise. Chris fell right through that sheet and landed right on his stomach. And no matter how tight we held on to the sheet, he still managed to get through.We were shocked and a bit worried and we looked shoes shoppingat the ground where he landed. This tiny seventy pound boy had made a hole right through the sheet and landed. He was positioned like one of those chalk drawings you find after a homicide, with one arm near the head another to the side and the knee bent a bit. We might as well have drawn an outline because he wasn't moving. So we bent down to check if he was still alive and when we asked him if he was okay he uttered these five words… "Ah stee hi da flow" in other words, "I still hit the floor!" Poor little man! But before you condemn us, Chris is fourteen now and he still bugs us about it, any tree he climbs he gets down on his own and, strangely, he wants to be a fireman when he grows up. Now he can write that he had personal experience about jumping and catching. See, no harm done…

Discussing our victory

The summer before fifth grade, my world was turned upside down when my family moved from the country town where I was born and raised to a town near the beach. When school began, I found it difficult to be accepted by the kids in my class who seemed a little more sophisticated, and who had been in the same class together since first grade.I also found this Catholic school different from the public school I had attended. At my old school, it was acceptable to express yourself to the teacher. Here, it was considered outrageous to even suggest a change be made in the way things were done. My replica handbagmom taught me that if I wanted something in life, I had to speak up or figure out a way to make it happen. No one was going to do it for me. It was up to me to control my destiny.I quickly learned that my classmates were totally intimidated by the strict Irish nuns who ran the school. My schoolmates were so afraid of the nuns’ wrath that they rarely spoke up for themselves or suggested a change.Not only were the nuns intimidating, they also had some strange habits. The previous year, my classmates had been taught by a nun named Sister Rose. This year, she came to our class to teach music several times a week. During their year with her, she had earned the nickname Pick-Her-Nose-Rose. My classmates swore thatWholesale jewelry during silent reading, she’d prop her book up so that she could have herself a booger-picking session without her students noticing. The worst of it, they told me, was that after reading was over, she’d stroll through the classroom and select a victim whose hair would be the recipient of one of her prize boogers. She’d pretend to be praising one of her students by rubbing her long, bony fingers through their hair! Well, to say the least, I did not look forward to her sort of praise.One day during music, I announced to Sister Rose that the key of the song we were learning was too high for our voices. Every kid in the class turned toward me with wide eyes and looks of total disbelief. I had spoken my opinion to a teacher― - one of the Irish nuns!That was the day I gained acceptance with the class.body jewelry Whenever they wanted something changed, they’d beg me to stick up for them. I was willing to take the punishment for the possibility of making a situation better and of course to avoid any special attention from Pick-Her-Nose-Rose. But I also knew that I was being used by my classmates who just couldn’t find their voices and stick up for themselves.Things pretty much continued like this through sixth and seventh grades. Although we changed teachers, we stayed in the same class together and I remained the voice of the class.At last, eighth grade rolled around and one early fall morning our new teacher,Replica rolex watches Mrs. Haggard― - not a nun, but strict nevertheless― - announced that we would be holding elections for class representatives. I was elected Vice President.That same day, while responding to a fire drill, the new president and I were excitedly discussing our victory when, suddenly, Mrs. Haggard appeared before us with her hands on her hips. The words that came out of her mouth left me surprised and confused. “You’re impeached!” she shouted at the two of us. My first reaction was to burst out laughing because I had no idea what the word “impeached” meant. When she explained that we were out of office for talking during a fire drill, I was devastatedOur class held elections again at the beginning replica watchesof the second semester. This time, I was elected president, which I took as a personal victory. I was more determined than ever to represent the rights of my oppressed classmates.My big opportunity came in late spring. One day, the kids from the other eighth grade class were arriving at school in “free dress,” wearing their coolest new outfits, while our class arrived in our usual uniforms: the girls in their pleated wool skirts and the boys in their salt and pepper pants. “How in the world did this happen?” we all wanted to know. One of the eighth graders from the other class explained that their teacher got permission from our principal, Sister Anna, as a special treat for her students.We were so upset that we made a pact to go in and let our teacher know that we felt totally ripped off.wholesale shoes We agreed that when she inevitably gave us what had become known to us as her famous line, “If you don’t like it, you can leave,” we’d finally do it. We’d walk out together. Once in the classroom, I raised my hand and stood up to speak to our teacher. About eight others rose to show their support. I explained how betrayed we felt as the seniors of the school to find the other eighth graders in free dress while we had to spend the day in our dorky uniforms. We wanted to know why she hadn’t spoken on our behalf and made sure that we weren’t left out of this privilege.As expected, instead of showing sympathy for our humiliation, she fed us her famous line, “If you don’t like it, you can leave.” One by one, each of my classmates shrank slowly back into their seats. Within seconds, I was the only one left standing.I began walking out of the classroom, and Mrs. Haggard commanded that I continue on to the principal’s office.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

A slave to money

Waiting at the bus stop XuanWuMenDong, I could not help trembling from the cold. I had waited for the bus No.T4 for at least half an hour, while about five No. 7-buses, which brought me to that bus stop was by.The day when the weather forecast that it -4 ℃ ~ 4 ℃. Very nice! I felt happy. But was it really that beautiful? Why was it so cold? Had the weather report a mistake? Or has my feeling go wrong?ladies sandals I could not stop shivering and my foot was useless. Look at the gray sky, and I could do nothing but sigh. I wanted a shop to get my hair dryer that I had from the internet. I had to pay with online banking. Especially in this case, the people waiting at home for the courier to him the goods. But I say to myself, on the assumption that I went into the shop, because I did not want that 8yuan the goods, but have a look at the shop and see if it deserves further "cooperation". Why did I buy a hairdryer from the Internet, while it is on the shelves of supermarkets? Why do I have my little room in leather walleta simple decoration? Why do I have the kitchen every day? I could anyway, is a reason for everything I did. I liked just decoration, especially if I did not specify where I would be within the next month. I've cooked, because I have a slight taste, but could only be satisfied by my own.However someone could lay bare my subject. "They are just greedy with money."He-he ... yes, I'm just a greedy woman, I have been coach walletsa slave to money .It may be just the medicine you need. Of course there are times when you do not express gratitude immediately. In this case, do not let embarrassment sink you into silence-speak for the first time you have the chance. Once a young minister, Mark Brian, was sent to a remote community Kwakiutls Indians in British Columbia. The Indians, he said, is not a word for thank you. But Brian soon wholesale jewelryfound that these people had extraordinary generosity. Instead of saying thank you, it is their own to get back with all this for their own, and every kindness with an equal or higher quality. They have their thanks. I wonder if we had no words in our vocabulary for thank you, we would be a better job of communicating our gratitude? Would we be better, stronger, more care? Gratitude puts in motion a chain reaction that transforms people around us, including us. For no one misunderstands the melody of a grateful heart. His message is universal, his texts on all earthly boundaries, their music touches the sky..louis vuitton bag I have been used to save money, because I do a poor family and that I am a good girl. But I have so far, I have my own money now, but I still have to save money. What a shame ... I know that money does not grow by more savings, but increasingly through. But sometimes, if you do not grow a little more, you have to stop it from diminishing. I wrote this article, to a certain degree of comfort even in the background. Sometimes I really feel ashamed if my child with my friends about my penny pinching. What's more, I'm a little worried that I'm still too stingy in the future, even if I were a millionaire. Ha-ha

The Missed Blessings

A young man was always ready to graduate from the university. For many months he had admired a beautiful Sports cars in a dealer showroom, and knowing his father could afford, he said to him, that was everything he wanted. The graduation day, the young man awaited signs that his father had bought the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father him in his private study. His father told nike shoeshim how proud he was such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He submitted his Son a beautiful wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and a beautiful, leather-bound Bible, with the young man's name embossed in gold. Angrily, he raised his Voice Replica Handbagsto his father and said: "With all your money if you give me a Bible?" He stormed out of the House, from the Bible.and we will be more content when they are grown up. Then we are frustrated that we have teenagers to with.We will certainly be happy if they come from this phase. We tell ourselves that our life is ended, when our spouse gets his act together, if we want a nicer car, and are able to go on a nice vacation. Or, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than now. IfReplica Handbag not now, when? Your life will always be with challenges.It 's best, this to itself and decide to be happy anyway.Happiness is the way.So, treasure every moment that you and appreciate it, because you shared it with someone special, special enough to waste your time with him, and remember that time waits for no one.So, keep waiting. There is no better time than now to be happy. Happiness is a journey not a destination. So work like you do not need money, love like you never hurt, and Coach Handbagsdance like no one watched. Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and a wonderful family, but the realization of his father was very old, he thought perhaps he should go to see him. He had not seen it since that graduation day. Before he could the arrangements, he received a Telegram telling him his father died, and wanted all his possessions to his son. He needed to immediately come home and take care of things. If he is on his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search by his father, important papers and saw the stillGucci Handbags new Bible,The little boy grunted, struggled, pushed and pushed, but his only reward was to have the Rock roll back, smashing his chubby fingers. Finally he burst into tears of frustration. During this whole time the boy's father watched from his life -- Room window as the drama unfolded. At the moment the tears fell, a great shadow fell on the boy and the sandbox. It was the boy's father. Gently, but firmly, he said, "Son, why hast thou not all Strength that you had available? "defeated, the boy sobbed back," But I did, Daddy, I did! I have all the The strength that I had! "" No, son, "corrected the father kindly." You do not have all the power She had. You did not ask. "With the effect that from the father, picked up the rock and removed it from the sandbox. fashion sandalsjust as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to view the pages. As he read, a car key dropped from the back of the Bible. It was a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer, the sports car he wanted. On the day was the day on which it is graduation and the words ... "Paid in full." How often have we miss blessings because they are not packaged as we expected? Do not spoil what you have the desire, what you do not have, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you just hoping. Sometimes we do not recognize the good fortune we have or we could have, because we expect the "packaging" to be different. What can be that bad luck may be in fact the door, just waiting to opened.